You Spent a Small Fortune on Yourself 你给自己花了一小笔钱
Even in this day and age, many people still dont level with their spouses about how much they paid for some coveted service or item, like a salon treatment or a fancy new grill. Indeed, it can be difficult to own up to, say, a $70 haircut at a chic salon when your husband shells out just $22 at the barber. But keeping money secrets in a relationship creates bigger conflicts down the road. Sure, in this economy, sharing such information may lead to a discussion about cutting back. But your partner will also get a better understanding of what you value most and those conversations will ultimately bring the two of you closer. 即使如今这世道,对一些奢侈的享受或者物品,还有很多人没对配偶报实账,如纤体保养或一台新款的烧烤炉。实际上,的确很难坦白说,比如你花了70美元去一家美发沙龙做头发,而你老公在理发店只花了22美元。但夫妻之间对金钱保密,随着时间的推移,会引起更大的冲突。当然,如今这样的经济形势下,分享这些事情可能就会讨论到减少开支。但伴侣也会更了解你最看重的事情而且,这类沟通最终会让你们二人走得更近。
Your House Is Usually a Disaster Area 你家里通常乱七八糟
The next time you entertain, dont pretend that your place always looks perfect. Its as annoying as a stick-thin model saying she eats like a horse. If someone compliments your home, be honest and say, Ive spent the last two days cleaning up. You have no idea what was behind this sideboard. Its impossible to keep it together at all times. Wouldnt you rather be friends with someone who owns up to her imperfections? I know I would. 下次聚会时,别装作你家里一直这么完美。就象一个瘦得跟竹竿似的模特,说她的食量大得象匹马,这很令人恼火。假如有人恭维你家,你就老老实实地说:我花了两天洗洗刷刷。你根本想象不到柜子里有多乱。不可能一直保持井井有条。难道你不愿意和一个坦承自己不完美的人交朋友吗?我想我是愿意的。
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