新婚伊始，生活教会你的三堂课_其他

新婚伊始，生活教会你的三堂课

I believe that my first 365 days of matrimony have been significant. I’d like to share what this first year has taught me about my relationship, myself and marriage in general.

我认为自己婚姻生活的第一年至关重要。我愿意和大家分享这一年我在夫妻关系、自我以及婚姻方面的心得。

First, I've learned that being married is far less stressful than wedding planning -- at least for me.The process of making decisions for the huge event was a little... much at times. Looking back, I've realized that I didn't need to work myself up over things so much. Being married, while full of decisions and tasks, is much more mundane than planning to get married ever was -- and thank goodness for that.

首先，我明白了结婚后的生活远不及婚礼策划那般紧张，至少对我而言如此。有时候为婚礼这项大事做决定，程序有些繁杂。再回首，我便意识到我没有必要在策划婚礼上那么拼命。尽管结婚后少不了做各种决定，完成各种任务，过日子确实比筹办婚礼要更平淡得多。还多亏了这点啊。

Another key lesson I learned has to do with my perception of marriage and how that's changed.I find myself thinking critically about my choices as a wife -- how my actionsaffect my husband, how I can communicate better, talk more gently, be the person I want to be. I now feel a deeper responsibility to just be better. Showing up for my partner, and our marriage, as my best self matters far more now than it ever did before. Since, of course, we're in this for life and all.