恋爱中激情四射的这个奇妙阶段,通常会让你恋爱的小翅膀飞个不停。当你非常高兴的时候,你会花很多时间打扮自己来打动你的伴侣,跟他谈论爱情直到天明。不幸的是,这段心中小鹿乱撞的时期会很快结束,激情变成了一种真正充分的爱。这段时期的爱情,是你准备好跟你的爱人分享你的好与坏。爱只有在你不惧怕失去、完全接受另一半的好与坏的时候才会真正成长。
3. Other people don’t belong to you
别人并不属于你一个人
Nowadays we live in a democratic world where people are free and have equal rights and responsibilities. Moreover, we are free to express ourselves and lead an independent life. No matter how long you’ve been together, you should understand that the person you love isn’t your property. People who really love each other are committed to this beautiful feeling and treat each other with respect. Your love is your muse but not your possession. You cannot control the behavior and every step of your partner, because it will only break trust in your relationship. The only adequate thing you can do is to trust him and try to create common rules of commitment both of you should stick to.
如今的我们生活在一个民主的社会里,每个人都是自由的、他们拥有同等的权利和责任。除此之外,我们可以自由地表达自己的想法,过独立的生活。不管你们在一起多久了,你都应该明白你爱的那个人不是你的个人财产。真正相爱的两个人会对这段美妙的感情履行承诺、互相尊重。你的爱是你自己的想法而非真正占有。你不能控制另一半的所有行为,因为这只会破坏你们之间的信任。你唯一能做的就是相信他,试着去创造一种你们两个人都能遵守的承诺规则。
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