最近,我一直在想,也许这一问题的答案就是,不要试图去解决一切事情。诚然,少数幸运儿的人生迄今一帆风顺,但我们对大多数人而言,生命里会有断断续续、会有中断的时候、会有困惑、错误、会拐错弯、掉错头,还有颜面尽失的时候。若非有小石子儿、坑坑洼洼在,若非有意外与你不期而遇,或惊喜或惊愕,生命之路会一文不值。
As one of my dearest friends, the Buddhist teacher Sylvia Boorstein says, "We are alwaysaccommodating to a new situation." That ever-changing new situation is, in fact, what makes up the shape of our lives. And that shape assumes its own kind of integrity, over time. This is how it is, how it has been. The truth of who we are is all we have to offer each other. And so often we want to edit it, to hide it, to cut and paste the story so that it will read like something intentional, something that we all meant to do all along.
正如我最亲密的一位朋友、禅学教师西薇雅・布尔斯坦所言,“我们总是在适应新环境。”不断变化的新环境,事实上成就了我们生命的形态。而那一形态,经久历时,呈现出其特有的完整性。这就是生命的样貌、生命缘何如此。我们真真正正是谁,也就是我们要相互展现的。太多次,我们想要修改、想要隐藏、想剪切复制事实情况,好像听起来有意,是我们一直刻意追求的那样。
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