You may find that the other person didn’t realize you weren’t finished speaking, or your colleague was so excited about your idea that she enthusiastically jumped into the conversation.
8. They allow space between them.
If all else fails, smart people allow space between themselves and those they don’t like. Excuse yourself and go on your way. If at work, move to another room or sit at the other end of the conference table. With a bit of distance, perspective, and empathy, you may be able to come back and interact both with those people you like and those you don’t like as if unfazed .
Of course, everything would be easier if we could wish people we don’t like away. Too bad we all know that’s not how life works.
Vocabulary
1. considerate: 体贴的,考虑周全的。
2. thrive: 兴旺,茁壮成长;convivial: 欢乐的,愉快的;cross: 生气的;maligned: 恶意的,敌意的,后文malign为动词,意为“诽谤,污蔑”。
3. admittedly: 无可否认地。
4. ruffle: 触怒,使烦恼。
5. 斯坦福大学管理学教授罗伯特•萨顿说,一个完全由你愿意邀请到后院烧烤的人组建起来的团队(即团队中全是你喜欢的人)既不可能,也不切实际。comprise: 包含,由……组成。
6. inevitable: 不可避免的;encounter: 遇到;oppose: 反对。
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