So is there any way to bring those tingles back?
那么是否有办法可以找回那些东西呢?
Yes. Here's how.
是的,这样做。
What you can learn from arranged marriages
从包办婚姻中学到的东西
"Arranged marriage! AGH! Weird!"
“包办婚姻!真是不可理喻!”
Hold on a sec. We can learn something here. What do researchers find when they compare at 50 arranged marriages and 50 "love" marriages?
等一下。我们可以从中学到些什么。研究人员对比了50对包办婚姻的夫妻和50对自由恋爱的夫妻,那么他们有什么发现呢?
Love marriages start out happier — but that declines quickly.
自由恋爱的婚姻在开始的时候都是快乐的——但是这种快乐很快就会过去。
Arranged marriages start out less happy, but after 10 years, they're happier than love marriages. And stay that way.
包办婚姻的夫妻开始的时候不是很幸福,但十年以后,他们会比自由恋爱的夫妻还要快乐,并会一直持续这种状态。
The couples who had married for love and been together less than a year averaged a score of 70 points out of a possible 91 on the love scale, but these numbers steadily fell over time. The love couples who had been married ten years or longer had an average score of only 40 points. In contrast, the couples in arranged marriages were less in love at the outset, averaging 58 points, but their feelings increased over time to an average score of 68 at the ten or more years mark.
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