这个潮流让人担忧,我真的受不了。我知道自己比别人赚得多了心里会暗暗窃喜,知道自己比别人赚得少了心里会略感悲伤。我也曾去过自以为比较豪华的场所,而且我明白,别人看到了要么会羡慕要么会觉着我厚颜无耻。
It seems as though self-worth is increasingly being tied to the careers we choose and the money we earn. A study in 2013, for example, found that nearly 17 percent of unemployed Americans were depressed, compared to almost six percent of those who had a permanent job.
貌似自身的价值正逐渐和我们选择的事业还有赚多少钱联系在一起。比如2013年的一项研究发现接近17%的美国失业者很郁闷,相比之下有稳定工作的人中这个比重只有6%。
We need to stop placing so much value on what a person earns, and putting more on what they do. Don't get me wrong - being ambitious is not a fault, and achievements should always be celebrated. But when a person uses their success to judge you negatively, it becomes a problem.
我们不能再继续把价值都附加到一个人赚多少钱和他们的工作上。你不要误会,有抱负本身没有错,成功也应该得到喝彩。但当一个人用自己的成功来否定你时,问题就出现了。
We need to stop thinking that somebody is worth admiring if they're filthy rich but stabbed everybody in the back along the way to get there. We need to consign the expression 'Nice Guys Finish Last' to the dustbin of history, by realising that being a decent person is not a sign of weakness but a positive and desirable trait.
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