2.Avoid unnecessary confrontation
2.避免不必要的冲突
If you decide that the point is valid, it may be hard to take. In your discomfort, you may feel the urge to lash out at the other person and defend yourself. But it’s best to avoid getting into an argument.
如果你认定自己的观点是正确的,那它可能很难让人接受。你不爽,你也许想立即反击别人保护自己。不过,最好是避免争吵。
3.Be open to the idea of change
3.接受改变
Most of us are pretty stubborn. And it may be because of a concept called “cognitive dissonance” that can prevent us from changing even when that’s what we need most.
我们大多数人都很顽固。这可能是因为“认知失调”,它可以防止我们改变,即使我们最需要改变。
4.Ask questions
4.提问
If you’re open to using the criticism as a springboard to improvement, you will likely need more information. The initial moment you hear the criticism may not be the best time to ask for more details. Your emotions will be riding high, and you may not be particularly receptive to extra information. However, when you feel ready, it could be worth revisiting the subject with the person who criticized you. Even if you don’t agree with their advice, thank them and promise to consider it.
如果你愿意把批评作为改进的跳板,你可能需要更多信息。最开始听到批评的时候可能不是寻求更多细节的最佳时机。因为那时你情绪高昂,可能不会特意去接受额外的信息。反而,当你觉得准备好了,就可以和当事人一起重新审视这个问题了。即使你不认同他们的建议,也要感谢他们并答应考虑考虑。
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