如果你因为他没有足够的时间与你在一起,或者当你们在谈论到将来以及负责多少的时候,你们没有达成共识,而感到失望,你需要和他严肃地谈话一次。
But make sure that you get what you want from the talk. If you don’t, you have to keep chatting until you figure it out, or you might realize that you two just aren’t as well matched as you thought.
但是要确保得到你想要从谈话中所获得的结果。如果你没有的话,你们需要一直交谈,直到解决为止,或许你会发现正如你所想的一样,并不太合适在一起。
2) Have realistic expectations
2)拥有现实的期望
Expectations can kill even the best relationships. Think of it this way: if you think your boyfriend is going to surprise you with flowers and a fancy dinner on your one-year anniversary but he does absolutely nothing, how do you feel? Pretty awful, right? You’re definitely pissed because you had an expectation that wasn’t met.
期望能够终结甚至是最好的关系。这样考虑一下:如果你认为你的男友会在你们每年一度的纪念日的时候,给你鲜花和美妙晚餐的惊喜,但是他却什么都没做,你感觉如何呢?非常糟糕,是不是?你肯定会非常生气,因为你有未实现的预期。
If you can have more realistic expectations, then your relationship has a much better shot of working out. That’s because unfortunately, as much as you wish you could make your boyfriend act the way that you want him, that’s just not the case. Funny how that works, right?
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