That doesn't mean you can't have feelings. "Go take a walk. Have your little pity party for 10 minutes," Randall said.
但这不意味着你不能有个人情绪。“出去散散步,度过10分钟的的小小遗憾派对,”Randall说道。
But then you'll want to make an appointment to see your manager (or whoever made the decision). They'll be able to help clarify why they chose your coworker for the promotion, Randall said.
Randall还表示,不过之后你会想要跟经理(或者作出这个决定的管理者)见面。他们能够他们选择了给你的同事升职的原因。
"You don't know your coworker's background," she added. Maybe they've been taking night courses, and that tipped the scale.
“你不了解你同事的背景,”她补充道。也许他们一直在参与夜间课程,那么就起到了决定性作用。
Or, alternatively, your manager may say they've had their eye on you for another position that's a better fit.
或者,有另外一种情况,你的经理可能会告诉你他们早已为你留意了另外一个更适合你的职位了。
"Before you make a scene and really ruin your professional reputation," Randall said, "find out first."
Randall说道:“在你想要大吵大闹并真的毁了职业名声之前,先找出原因吧。”
Finally, you'll want to congratulate your coworker, or at least acknowledge their big win.
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