Ask for their help (if needed), and if they can’t help you directly, ask them to help get you tutoring or some academic accommodation.
Get to know your professors, be nice to them, and participate in class. Then, convey this activity to your parents. They will feel proud, and trust you more.
Make an effort to avoid problems. Okay, I know, the other guy started it, right? Sorry, that won’t fly anymore. If you become involved in a conflict or disruption, it won’t matter to them how it started. You know all about the wrong crowds, the wrong places to be, and the wrong things to say, and if you make the choice to avoid problems, you will win points with your parents.
If you know you’re going to get a low grade, tell your parents up front. The longer the bad news delays, the more irritated your parents will feel.
A parent’s biggest concern is her child’s safety, and if your parents had their way, you would never leave the house after dark. Being an invincible young adult, you find this thinking completely irrational. Irrational or not, your parents will always worry about your safety. To make things better for yourself and keep their worry, checking, and harassment to a minimum, you need to throw them some more bones:
Check in frequently to let them know you’re ok, where you’re spending time, and with whom.
Talk to your parents about your activities, and don’t blow them off if they ask you about them.
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