精神病学家朱迪丝·奥洛夫称病理性说谎者患有共情缺陷障碍,即缺乏同理心,实质上就是缺乏良知。
When you don't care about other people, lies don't seem to matter. A lack of empathy essentially means a lack of conscience, which is a hard concept to grasp for a lot of people.
如果你不在乎别人,那么谎言也就显得无所谓。缺乏同理心实质上就是缺乏良知,这对很多人来说是一个难以理解的概念。
"When they lie it doesn't hurt them in the same way it would hurt us," Orloff said. "So many people can't understand why they're lying, because they're trying to fit these people into the ordinary standards of what it means to be empathetic."
奥洛夫说:“他们说谎的时候不会像我们一样感到难受。很多人根本不明白这些人为什么撒谎,因为他们试图让这些病态的说谎者达到关于同理心的通常标准。”
But they don't fit. In fact, they may not even realise they are lying half the time, because they're not conscious of it.
但这些说谎者是达不到通常标准的。事实上,他们有一半时候或许根本没有意识到自己在说谎,因为他们毫无察觉。
Orloff said they actually believe they are telling the truth a lot of the time. It's not so much about the fact itself, she said, as it is about wanting to have power over somebody.
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