It's my way or the highway
你爱听不听
According to a study done at the University of New Hampshire, children of authoritarian parents-ones who demand compliance from children without an explanation of why they've established rules and standards-are more likely to be disrespectful and get themselves into trouble. They say having rules is fine, but respectful, two-way communication with your kids is also important.
新罕布什尔大学所做的一项研究表明,独裁父母所教出来的孩子--不解释自己为什么设立这样的规则和标准就要求孩子遵守的父母--更有可能不尊重他人,或者惹上麻烦。研究员说设定规则没问题,但一定要尊重他人,与孩子的双向交流也很重要。
You should be ashamed of yourself
你该为自己感到羞耻
Not only is shame unhealthy for people of all ages, it can make kids who have high self-esteem act aggressively, according to researchers at the University of Michigan. Narcissistic kids feel more threatened when they're shamed, leading them to lash out and respond defensively.
密歇根大学的研究员表示,羞耻感不仅不利于任何年龄段人群的健康,而且还会让自尊心强的小孩充满攻击性。感到羞耻时,自恋的小孩会感到更多的威胁,从而导致他们带有攻击性的回击、反应。
You're perfect
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