"I know that in the past I've hurt people and said things that I didn't mean to make them happy in the moment," he said. "So now I'm just more so looking at the future, making sure I'm not damaging them. What if Hailey ends up being the girl I'm gonna marry, right? If I rush into anything, if I damage her, then it's always gonna be damaged. It's really hard to fix wounds like that. It's so hard.… I just don't want to hurt her."
"我知道,以前我也伤过别人,也会说一些违背本意的话,只是为了让当时的他们开心,"他说道。"现在,我更加关注未来的发展,确保自己不会搞破坏。万一海丽就是我最后要娶的人呢,对不?如果急于求成,我会对她造成伤害,这段感情也会受到影响。类似的伤痕真的难以弥补。太难了……我真的不想伤害她。"
Why more couples are breaking up...then making up
为什么越来越多的夫妻会分手……然后又复合
There are many reasons for the on-off phenomenon in this day and age. The age of first marriage is higher than ever (29.5 years for men, 27.4 years for women in 2017). That allows for more opportunities to date around and break up. The abundance of romantic options plays a role too, according to Marisa T. Cohen, PhD, an associate professor of psychology at St. Francis College in New York City. "Psychologist Barry Schwartz explained the 'paradox of choice,' which is the idea that as we are afforded more choice, it can lead to higher levels of anxiety," she explains.
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