如果爱人希望能将更多的时间花在爱好上,那你可以给他们做出安排,让他们在特定的日子里做他们想做的事情。但如果他/她只是告诉你他/她需要一些时间,那理解个中涵义就有点困难了。
Do not let space become distance
不要让空间变成距离
When you offer your partner the space they need, the situation might get a bit strange, and you might feel like you're getting distant from each other. To avoid that, you should check in from time to time.
当给予另一半他们所需要的空间时,情况会变得有些奇怪,你可能会产生这样的感觉:你们变得越来越疏离了。为了避免这种情况的发生,你需要不时的撩他/她一下。
This way, the space they are getting will not feel like a distance between you. Also, you can suggest to check in every Saturday night or at least once a week, adding that you understand their struggle and their need for personal space.
这样,他们既能得到想要的空间,又不会感到和你疏远。同时,你也可以告诉他/她,你想要每周六过去找他/她,或每周至少找一次。同时要补充说,你理解他们的痛苦,也知道他们需要个人空间。
Do not let this decision affect your relationship
不要让这个决定影响你们的感情
When thinking about offering more space to your partner, you should decide according to their personality. There are situations in which asking for space might be a way to manipulate you, such as:
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