So what do you think happens when you pat a twentysomething on the head and you say, "You have 10 extra years to start your life"? Nothing happens.
所以说当你拍着一个20多岁人的头说,“你还有十年才开始真正的人生”时,你认为会发生什么?什么也不会发生。
You have robbed that person of his urgency and ambition, and absolutely nothing happens.
你剥夺了那个人的紧迫感以及志向,但没有任何作用。
事实上,20岁是成人发展(adult development)的关键阶段,这段时间会塑造你的未来。
Meg Jay告诫20多岁的年轻人,不要浑浑噩噩度过20岁,更不要把所有的压力都留给30岁。
When a lot has been pushed to your 30s, there is enormous thirtysomething pressure to jump-start a career, pick a city, partner up, and have two or three kids in a much shorter period of time. Many of these things are incompatible, and as research is just starting to show, simply harder and more stressful to do all at once in our 30s.
当很多事情被推到30多岁时,你会面临巨大的30岁压力——极短时间内开始职业生涯,择一城,选一人,生几个娃。这些事情中有很多是不兼容的,就如研究所示,在30多岁这个阶段同时完成这么多事,压力和难度实在是太大了。
后来,Meg Jay遇到了另一位年轻患者Emma,她遇到了身份认同难题,对未来充满迷茫。
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