Instead of being fake, you should try to show an authentic version of yourself. "That goes on in regular dating too to a certain extent," warns Lovett. "You put your best self forward. But in the cyber dating world, it doesn't even have to be a version of yourself. It can be a made-up persona."
不要装了,尽可能的呈现自己的真实面吧。"这在一定程度上也适用于普通约会,"洛维特警告道。"呈现自己最好的一面。但在网恋世界中,你呈现的不一定是你自己,可能只是一个虚构出来的形象。"
Quit bragging about yourself
不要吹嘘自己
Confidence is an attractive quality, but bragging is not. Research from the University of Iowa suggests that bragging, i.e. constantly saying positive things about yourself, could lead to you being seen as less socially attractive. While it's fine to be proud of who you are, you should also try to be modest.
自信是一种迷人的品质,吹嘘可不是。爱荷华大学开展的研究表明:吹牛,即经常性地肯定自己,可能会导致自己的魅力减弱。虽然为自己感到自豪是一件好事,但也得适可而止、保持谦逊啊。
Choose a friendly picture
选一张友好的照片做头像
Let's talk about the trickiest task of all; choosing your profile picture. As Lovett explains, the image you choose rests largely on what you want. "A friendly image is always going to be more appealing to someone who is looking for a relationship," she explains. "If it's more about a hookup or sex, the image is going to be more provocative."
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