你满足自己创造的生活,但在这段履行了妻子的既定责任但却没有爱的婚姻中,他幸福吗?你爱他吗?如果他是被爱的,他又为何会找到我呢?我不怪你--你只是不再爱他了。但为什么要为了表面的光鲜而在这段无爱的婚姻中苟延残喘呢?
I ended it today because I got tired of not existing. He doesn't want to hurt his child, and we kept trying to figure how we could work this out without doing so. It pained me to think I could bring his life crumbling down. I saw no way to go on. Nor did he; his child's hurt was unbearable to him - his own and mine bearable in comparison.
今天我们结束了,因为我厌倦了这种'不存在'的感觉。他不想伤害他的孩子,我们也一直在想办法做到这一点。一想到我可能会让他的生活分崩离析,我就感到痛苦。我再也无法继续下去了。他亦是如此;孩子受到伤害是他所无法忍受的--相较之下,我和他受伤更易忍受。
Why won't you give him the love he needs? Why won't you give him the companionship and care that comes of loving someone, and not just the daily endeavours required of a successful marriage?
为什么你没有给他他所需要的爱?为什么不是因为爱他而给他陪伴和关怀,他需要的不止是一段成功婚姻所需的每日陪伴和关怀。
I am not asking you to set him free, just that you understand and love him - and let him understand and love you. Make yours a marriage more than in name only. After all, you must have once had a real marriage? I have no right to say anything, and I know only one side of the story. But the man I know would have chosen you had you given him an iota of the love he seeks.
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