就目前看来,人们的琐碎烦恼,不安全感,以及闲言碎语都不会让你忿忿不平了。如果你是一个积极阳光的人,或者你不想加入八卦的行列,你就懂得如何优雅地拒绝请求。也许更重要的是,你很清楚你的事业与生活完全不需要赌注在这些琐事上。
You also know that most people are a bit insecure, and that their coping mechanisms are going to be all over the place. The professional world is one big kindergarten. You smile, stay nice, and go back to doing a great job.
你也知道大多数人都有点缺乏安全感,并且不管何种场合他们的应对机制都会显示出来。专业领域就像一所规模庞大的幼儿园。你微笑,待人友好,然后回归本职出色地完成工作任务。
3.You know how to say no.
3. 你懂得如何拒绝他人。
When I was younger, I had a boss who worked so hard that her lips would turn blue from cold in the room (it was so late that the heating got turned off), and who would not eat for 7 or 8 hours because she ate two meals a day. Subconsciously, regardless of the fact that I was paid far less, and an hourly employee at that, she expected the same kind of “devotion” from me. And I was dumb enough to follow, which left me exhausted and with no life outside of work.
在笔者更年轻的时候,我遇到一位非常卖力工作的老板,甚至还能看到她的嘴唇冷得发紫(因为到了晚上,中央加热系统就会关闭),她不像平常人一样每隔7到8小时就会进食一次,她每天只吃两顿。我隐隐感觉到,虽然我的薪水远远不如她,作为一名时薪制的员工,她所期待我的“付出”应与她一样。而我当时也很单纯,就按照老板的吩咐,这使我筋疲力尽,生活除了工作还是工作。
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