Fidelity doesn't seem to be a big concern for soap characters. For all the passion, the protestations of undying love, these characters simply can't keep their eyes from wandering. The way they hop from bed to bed on the flimsiest excuse. In our real lives, such drama and conflict are exhausting and cheating can ruin relationships. But of course, happy, successful marriages on soaps wouldn't be all that entertaining for us in the audience to watch!
对爱人的忠诚也许不是剧中情侣们最关心的问题。剧中的角色会追求生活的激情和他们所谓的永恒的爱情,这些电视角色们会到处找对象。他们会为了些芝麻蒜皮的事情辗转于各段感情。然而我们现实生活中,这样的桥段和矛盾会让我们心力交瘁,还会直接导致感情破裂。但是当然,剧中如果全是幸福、成功的婚姻那观众们也会有意见的。
理智要战胜冲动
So much misery could be avoided on soaps if only they stopped themselves for a moment, took a breath, and counted to ten before taking action, good or bad. Likewise, when someone in our own lives sets us off, it can be tempting to blow up and behave rashly—whether it's declaring undying love or throwing down the gauntlet with an enemy. Yet if we just press the "pause" button on our emotions, taking time to mull over our choices, many crises can be defused.
如果电视剧中的角色们在行动前能停下来好好想想或者是心里默数到10,很多悲剧就都不会发生了。而在我们现实生活中,如果因为情绪难以控制而鲁莽行事可能会让事情变得很糟。然而如果我们能给自己的情绪按个“暂停”,给自己时间好好思考的话,很多危机就可以被避免了。
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