如何才能与孩子一起愉快用餐?_BEC初级作文

如何才能与孩子一起愉快用餐?

5. No one answers the telephone during meals.

6. Children need to eat nicely – no playing with their food.

7. Children need to TRY something – if they don't like it that's fine, but they must TRY it. If they truly try something and really don't like it then they are free to eat the side dishes.

These rules are pretty simple which make it easy for you to reinforce. If your child breaks one of the rules, use this phrase:

1. 小孩子要餐前洗手；

2. 小孩子要围桌而坐，不能四处乱跑；

3. 就餐时，不要打开电视；

4. 小孩子在说话前，要充分咀嚼嘴里的食物；

5. 就餐时，不接电话；

6. 小孩子吃饭要规矩，不要玩耍食物；

7. 小孩子不要挑食。如果他们不喜欢吃某种食物，没关系，但是必须要他们先尝一下味道。如果他们实在是不喜欢，才能去吃一些别的配菜。这些规则非常简单，所以实施起来比较容易。如果你的小孩没有遵守规则，你可以对小孩说：“爱娃（当然，你是称呼你自己孩子的名字），你必须（在开口说话前，把嘴巴里面的食物吃完，我们不要满口食物的说话。”）

The key words here are, “You need to” and “We”. These words teach your rules and values clearly and concisely but they also join you as a family instead of placing blame or belittling. When your child hears, “We” they hear, “Oh, yeah, that’s what my family does” instead of, “I'm bad again”.