当人们做坏事被抓到时,他们通常会笑。这是为什么呢?根据LaFrance和Hecht做的研究结果显示,做坏事被抓到的人如果露出微笑的话,我们对他们可能会多一些仁慈。不论是假笑、惨笑还是真正的不好意思的笑都能让对方放你一马的想法强烈一点。
3. Recover from social slip-ups
3. 笑能让你更容易被原谅
Did you forget to buy your partner an anniversary present? Has an important client's name slipped your mind? Have you accidentally kicked a small child? If you've tripped on a social banana, embarrassment is your go-to emotion. The embarrassed smiles we display involve looking down and sometimes we emit a silly little laugh. This is designed to elicit fellow-feeling from other people so they think less of the slip and forgive us more quickly.
你是不是忘记给你的合作伙伴买周年纪念礼品了?不记得重要客户的名字了?不小心整伤了小孩子?如过你真的被这些社会人际关系“香蕉”给绊倒的话,相信你要尴尬好一阵子。这个时候低头尴尬一笑或者偶尔一个小小嗤笑会让别人对你多一些同情,这样他们忘记你的囧事的速度也会快一些。
So the embarrassed smile helps us get out of jail free(ish). Once again, the power of a smile.
尴尬一笑能帮我们迅速脱囧。微笑的力量再次发挥作用。
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