如果你有意想进入她的“朋友专区”,那她可能会立马把你划到“只能做朋友”的类别中。虽然她可能在刚开始对你有吸引的感觉,但是一旦她感觉到你并没有分享同样的感受,而你们之间已经建立了深厚的友情,那她的感觉就很难拨乱反正了。除非有什么事情发生让我们改变看问题的视角,否则我们的思维是就很难再变回去了。
7. She's Already Moved On
她已经开始了新感情
I have a timing threshold between when a guy becomes a "friend I could potentially date" and a "friend who will only ever be a friend." What happens with the timing thing is that once I become close to a guy, with the "he's one of my best friends" mindset, it's past the point of no return. He's the one I turn to when I have problems with the guy I might be dating at the time, the one I'm not afraid to let see me looking my worst, and the one I can rely on when I need anything. But, this is always with the understanding that he's my friend. Nothing more.
女生的心里是有个时机门槛的:“可能会约会的朋友”和“只能做朋友的朋友”可大不一样。这个时机就是,一旦女生跟某个男生很亲密,心里有了“他会是我最好的朋友”的想法,那么这个时机就过了,再也无法回头了。最好的朋友,意味着我会跟他聊我恋爱中的所有问题,我也不怕让他看到我最丑的样子,我有任何需要都可以指望他。但在我的心里,他只是我的朋友,再无其他。
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