6. You're Not Being Decisive
你太过犹豫不决
Women are into decisive men who know what they want. Women want to feel wanted and swept off their feet. The whole "friendship" gimmick is not attractive to women. If that's your approach to a woman you're interested in, you're showing that you're indecisive, scared and don't know what you're looking for. They want you to see their potential right away and then pursue them.
女人喜欢决绝果断,明确知道自己想要什么的男人。这样女人才会有一种被需要的感觉,会让她们神魂颠倒。“友情”这种骗人的把戏对女人没有吸引力。如果培养友情是你接近感兴趣的姑娘的方式,那么你就是在表现自己不够果断、战战兢兢和无所适从的一面。女人想要你马上看到她的潜力,然后展开攻势。
5. You're Afraid Of Dating
你在害怕约会
I think that you've come to rationalize avoiding something that's difficult for you. You have to learn to date. I know it's awkward and scary, but what you're doing [if you try to be friends first] is trying to find some shortcut or loophole or easy way out that will allow you to avoid doing something that I think you know you need to do. This same psychology is why overweight people keep buying miracle pills instead of getting on the treadmill.
只做朋友不恋爱,我觉得你只是在合理地避免一些困难的事情,你必须学会如何约会。我知道约会很尴尬很吓人,但如果你想先做朋友,那你只是在走捷径找漏洞,用轻松简单的相处方式让你可以免于约会里的种种麻烦。这跟超重的人拼命买特效药而不愿意运动减肥的心理是一样的。
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