梦想集结号：你在追逐谁的目标？_BEC初级作文

梦想集结号：你在追逐谁的目标？

Focusing on certain qualifications and career paths – perhaps wanting their children to become doctors or lawyers

锁定一些特定的具有专业发展的职业推荐给自己的孩子——例如，父母会希望孩子将来成为一名医生或律师。

Encouraging a particular type of lifestyle by criticizing behavior that they consider "wrong"

通过鄙视或批评一些他们认为“错误”的行为，进而推崇另一种他们认可的生活方式。

Talking about the success of certain family members in terms of career, wealth, marriage, etc...

大力赞扬家族成员中那些在事业、财富、婚姻等方面卓有成就的人。

How to Change: Spend some time digging deep into your own goals. What do you really want for yourself? If you're pursuing a degree or career that you dislike, don't be afraid to change to something new. Your family may well turn out to be more supportive than you expect.

应对攻略：花一些时间，深究一下你真正想要实现的人生目标是什么。如果你现在正在攻读的学位或从事的行业并非你的心仪之选，那么就勇敢地去选择“新欢”吧。你的家人很可能比你想象中更乐于支持你的改变。

2: Your Friends' Goals

目标来源之二：你的亲朋好友

Among groups of friends, it's common for particular traits to spread. For instance, if your friends are all overweight, there's a good chance that you'll be overweight too.