爱情10招：带你遇见终极好男人_BEC初级作文

爱情10招：带你遇见终极好男人

不要总是去那些你平日里常去的地方，走出来试试新的酒吧、咖啡馆或者俱乐部吧。还在那里做之前那些事吗？当然不是！标记像Metromix和Thrillist那样的地址，可以获知当地的事件，谷歌一下本地以外的一些博客，上面会有更多机会让你结识新的朋友。

9.Work on yourself.

专注于自己。

Bring your "me" time back to the top of your priority list. Set personal goals (separate from your New Year's resolutions!) and stick to 'em. Whether you're focusing on toning your abs or taking new risks with your hairstyles, as 27-year-old New Yorker Sara says, "There is nothing more gratifying than running into him later and having him say, 'Wow, you look great.'"

将“你自己”的时间放回到你的优先名单的最前面。设定自己的目标（与你的新年目标分开），坚持去做。不论你是专心锻炼腹肌还是冒险尝试新发型，正如纽约27岁的萨拉所说，“没有什么比后来偶然遇到他，听他说‘哇，你看起来棒极了’ 更令人可喜的了。”

10.Remember: You broke up for a reason.

记住：你们分手是有原因的。

If you find yourself ruminating on the past, focus on the crappy stuff. "Any time I started slipping into 'oh-I-miss-him-I'm-so-sad' mode, I'd remind myself of everything that annoyed me about him—sometimes I even wrote down a list," says Jessica, 25, from Atlanta.