Mr Badiou sees risk as central to love. A loving relationship demands multiple and shared perspectives, which always give rise to incongruences and tensions. He reserves special scorn for dabblers in internet dating, who evidently believe that the search for "a photo, details of his or her tastes, date of birth, horoscope sign, etc" will ultimately net "a risk-free option". This is to neglect the very essence of love, according to Mr Badiou, which involves the presence of risk, the possibility of failure and the need for vulnerability. 巴迪乌认为爱情必然存在风险。恋爱关系的维持需要恋爱双方从多个角度看待问题,互相理解,这也常常导致冲突和争执。巴迪乌尤为鄙视通过网络寻找恋爱对象的人,这些人视爱情如儿戏。显然,他们认为:只要搜索到“照片、喜好、年龄、星座等信息”与自己要求相符合的他或她,就能谈一场毫无风险的恋爱。巴迪乌认为,这种行为忽略了爱情的本质:爱情本就存在风险,可能失败,需要双方适时地展示自己脆弱的一面。
The book's chatty style (it is based on a conversation with Nicolas Truong, a French journalist) lends a deceptive simplicity to the ideas within. Get to work unpicking these concepts and it soon becomes plain that, like many French philosophers, Mr Badiou sacrifices clarity for linguistic zip and sparkle. Nonetheless, he leaves the reader with an incisive overview of philosophical thinking on love, from Plato to Kierkegaard to Lacan. 这本书语言亲切(主要内容基于与法国记者Nicolas Truong的谈话),朴实简单的文字下蕴含着深刻的思想。如若将这些概念分开来看,很快就可以发现:与很多法国哲学家一样,巴迪乌并未选择一语道破,而是玩弄起辞藻,妙语连珠,意味深长。尽管如此,他在书中对自古以来关于爱情的各种哲学思考做了犀利的总结,从柏拉图到齐克果再到拉康,一应俱全,读者可借机一窥究竟。
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