首先,我会通知每个亲友拒收架子鼓。其次,我会声明:那些想“友好地”送给孩子会发出恼人噪音的玩具的人,应该加入到临时保姆的行列,照看兴奋不已的孩子。
This technique definitely worked miracles for me.
这个方法显然为我创造了奇迹。
6. Friends that tell you “I told you so”
跟你说“我早就告诉过你”的朋友
It is one thing to admit that you made a mistake and another to hear it from a person that you actually consider your friend. Friends should be there to support you and cheer you up when you are feeling down, not make themselves feel better at your expense, right?
这是在你犯了一两个错误后,会从一个你真的将其当作朋友的人那里听到。朋友应该是在你身边支持你,当你沮丧的时候鼓励你振作的人,而不是以你为代价而让自己感觉良好,对不对?
What to do about it:
如何应对:
It helps to keep in mind that when people say “I told you so”, they are trying to say, “I hope that you will listen to my advice in future”. Surprisingly enough, it is their way of protecting you from future mistakes (even if this strategy does not make you feel any better). If this is not the help you need – voice it out, without getting defensive. Bring the conversation back to what they can do to help you deal with the situation.
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