8. People who are positive are great communicators.
乐观人群善于交流
They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life. They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse. They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.
乐观人群明白,自信的交流是日常生活中和他人沟通的唯一途径。他们会避免批判性的、愤怒的交谈,也不会因为他人出言不逊就以牙还牙。相反地,他们在自我表达时善于运用机智和策略。他们还充满自信,绝不会人云亦云,也不会亦步亦趋跟着别人犯错误。
9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.
乐观人群明白,你活得越长,痛苦和悲伤也越多。
One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time. Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.
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