In the not-so-distant past, being single was often a sign of failure. Many people considered single women lonely creatures who couldn't attract a man. Though some stigma still remains, research conducted by Kay Trimberger, a visiting scholar at the University of California at Berkeley, reveals that for all women, including singles, the intimacy of being in a couple is not a requirement for leading a fulfilling and successful life. There are other ways to find happiness.
在并不遥远的过去,“单身”是种失败的象征。“单身女性”就等同于“没有吸引力的孤独生物”。虽然现在仍存在类似偏见,但最近加州大学伯克利分校的访问学者Kay Trimberger开展的一项调查显示,对女性而言,是否单身和是否拥有一个充实而成功的人生并无关联。幸福可以有很多方式。
Step 1:Look at both the pros and cons of your situation.
第一步:审视自身环境中的优缺点。
You might be single by choice or by circumstance. You might feel you are missing out on some things, but remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side. Think about the strains a relationship entails, and how much freedom you have now. If you've been in unhappy relationships, compare your state now to your state then. Look at the good points of being single, without trying to pretend its all rosy.
也许你的单身是自己选择、抑或是环境使然。可能有时候你会觉得自己错过了一些东西,但请记得不要“这山望着那山高”。想想看吧,一段感情中有多少烦心事儿啊!而单身能给你最大的自由。假如你曾经历过数段不快乐的感情,请把自己当前的状态和曾经的状态做个比较。挖掘那些单身的闪光点,同时别假装曾经的那些感情生活只剩美好和浪漫。
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