即便你很擅长一心多用，但在跟人讲话时，也请专心讲话。不要同时还在上网、看电视、查看任务清单，而且，千万不要边吃东西边讲电话！不管听电话的人会不会明说，这种行为都很讨厌。如果你实在没时间，那就直接坦白，另外再约时间讲话，或者长话短说。

4. Not paying attention to the people you care about most.

对最重要的人关心不够。

Pretending to listen while your mind wanders to your work day, etc. Do you really think your loved ones can’t tell? They can. And even more importantly, they need you to listen sincerely and thoughtfully. There is no greater gift of love and no greater expression of caring that you can offer the special people in your life, than your undivided time and attention. You need to remember that ‘love’ is listening, and everyone wants to be heard.

总是假装在听，心里却想着工作等其他事情吧？你真以为心爱的他/她感觉不到吗？其实恰恰相反。他/她真的希望你能用心倾听。还有什么比抽空关心他/她更能表达你的爱意呢？请记住：爱是倾听，而人人都渴望被倾听。

5. Constantly fishing for compliments.

无休止地暗求赞美。

“Oh, I look terrible today.” – after someone compliments you. “I just threw it together at the last minute.” – when you obviously dressed up. “I’m really not good at things like this.” – when the people you’re with know you are. Please. Stop. It’s not flattering.

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