6. Being sarcastic
说话刻薄
While you can pass the odd sarcastic quip off as a joke, there is often a deep seated hostility towards your partner at play behind the persistent use of sarcasm to put your partner down. If you want your relationship to flourish it’s time to look inwards and work out why you’re behaving this way before it’s too late. You might find your partner starts to push you away or avoids spending time with you out of fear and anger – being on the receiving end of sarcasm can be especially wearing.
当你把冷嘲热讽当笑话说时,说明你内心深处对他充满敌意,希望通过不断的挖苦打击他。如果你希望关系融洽,在无法挽回之前赶快自省,挖出作祟的恶魔。你或许发现对方已开始回避你,或出于恐惧和恼怒不愿和你在一起——被讽刺挖苦的滋味可不好受啊!
7. Drinking too much
贪杯
A nice relaxing glass of wine after a hard day’s work is one thing, but if one or both of you find yourselves drinking until you’re legless most nights, it’s a clear signal something’s not right between you and that you’re using alcohol to mask the shortcomings of the relationship. Unnecessary flare-ups are inevitable when there’s too much booze involved. Nobody wants to date a drunk so sober up or seek professional help before it’s too late to salvage things.
紧张的工作之余来一杯轻松一下是一回事,但如果你或你俩差不多夜夜喝得找不着北,那毫不疑问,你俩之间出问题了,你们在用酒精掩盖关系中的裂痕。一旦豪饮成了家常便饭,发生争执肯定在所难免了。谁愿意跟酒鬼在一起,所以别再贪杯,或者向专家求助,否则你将抱撼终生。
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