社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密_BEC初级作文

社会大课堂：社交达人的7个秘密

没错，这已是说过无数次的陈词滥调了，但别忘了：陈词滥调好歹也经得起时间考验。虚伪非常惹人讨厌，而且不管你装得多么像模像样，总有一天会被拆穿。外貌和心灵上最有魅力的人，往往都是坚持自我的人。接受并拥抱自己独特的个性也说明你很自信，而自信总能吸引他人。

7. Be self-aware

有自知之明

Periodically step outside yourself to evaluate how you come across to others. Don’t mistake this for being overly concerned with their opinions of you. Taking stock of the image you project shows a healthy respect for yourself as well as for them. Another factor to consider is your body language. You may not even realize that you’re wearing a perpetual frown or creating a stand-offish posture with crossed arms and lack of eye contact. It’s a simple concept, but it can make a big difference with how comfortable people feel around you.

常从局外人角度反省自己和他人的关系。这并不表示你太介意他人对你的看法。反省自己的形象说明你尊重自己和他人。另外，你还应注意自己的肢体语言。或许你一直没发现，自己常常皱着眉头、胳膊交叉抱胸、少有眼神接触。肢体语言并不难懂，却很能影响他人对你的感觉。

As you work on developing your social skills, keep in mind that these tips center around the saying, “To have a friend, be a friend.” If you let that advice guide your actions, you’ll develop that charisma that makes people want to be around you while also staying true to your own values and principles.