表现出你尊重对方讲话的样子，真心倾听对方在说什么，而不要私下想着下一句你该回应什么。

5. Repeat and Rephrase What You Hear

重复或重新表达对方的讲话

Before jumping in to express your opinion, rephrase what you hear. Start out by repeating the last three words the other person said. Then try to rephrase the rest of what was said in your own words.

别急着表达你的看法，先重申一遍对方的讲话。你可以重复对方说的最后三个字，然后用自己的话把前面的改述一遍。

This shows that you were listening and helps clarify what you heard. The other person can point out any discrepancies and can ensure that you truly understood what was being communicated. It will also prevent you from jumping in and expressing your opinion before ensuring you really understood.

这表明你确实在听，也便于理清刚才听到的话。对方可以指出偏差，确定你真的听懂了聊天话题。同时也避免你在真正理解前莽撞地爆出自己的看法。

6. Say, “Tell Me More”

问“然后呢？”

Saying, “Tell me more,” is a great conversation hack because it invites the other person to provide more details without prying. If your co-worker tells you that he’s thinking of looking for a new job, simply reply by saying, “Tell me more.” He can decide how much information he wants to reveal.

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