I have a senior colleague who is good at his job, but so bad with people, I think he may be on the autistic spectrum – as well as being a borderline alcoholic with bad body odour. Recently a new computer system has been installed, which we all find frustrating but he keeps shouting a strong obscenity at the screen. I have tried politely asking him to be quiet, but he said I should go and work in a nunnery if that’s how I felt about it. I feel someone needs to talk to him about some professional boundaries, and possibly about the state of his mental health. How should I handle this?

我有一位资深同事，工作十分出色，为人却十分糟糕。我想他可能是个泛自闭症患者，还是个有体臭的边缘型酗酒者。最近，公司里安装了新的计算机系统，我们都觉得这个系统很烦人，而他则不断对着屏幕喊不堪入耳的脏话。我曾试过礼貌地要求他保持安静，但他却说，要是我想的话，完全应该去女修道院上班。我感觉需要有人跟他谈谈一些职场中的界限问题，甚或是他的心理健康状况。我该如何处理这个问题？

Associate, female, 28

助理，女性，28岁

Lucy’s advice

露西的建议 The person who appears to be on what you loosely refer to as the “autistic spectrum” is not him, it is you.

那个你随便就称为“泛自闭症患者”的人似乎不是他，而是你。

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