3. The Approach
方法很重要
1) Keep It Simple
尽量简单
Don’t try to be funny and forget about impressing her. Women are attracted to men who are confident in their own skin, so bending over backwards in an attempt to “wow” a woman will probably just make her think you are trying too hard. Take a few deep breaths, think to yourself, “No big deal,” confidently walk up to her, and say, “Hi.” For bonus points, find something about her to compliment (maybe she has a neat tattoo, an expressive smile, or a witty t-shirt?).
别光顾着搞笑而忘了给她留下深刻印象。女性会被对自己外表自信的男士吸引,所以拼命去“追求”讨好她,只会让她认为你用力太猛。深呼吸对自己说:“没什么大不了的,”自信地走向她并向她打招呼,找她身上的优点去赞美一下(也许她有整洁的纹身、微笑的表情或是诙谐的T恤)。
2) Does Popping the Question Sound Terrifying?
提出邀约听起来可怕吗?
If you’re worried about appearing nervous, let’s make your approach as quick-and-painless as possible. March up to her and say something like, “Hello! I know this is a bit random, but I just wanted to say you caught my eye. I’m running late for a meeting/work/class/(you get the idea), but I’d love to get your phone number if that’s okay?”
如果你担心自己表现出紧张的状态,尽量给自己找个快速无痛的方法。接近她对她说些类似:“你好!我知道这样有些唐突,但我只想说你吸引了我的眼球。我赶着去开会/工作/上课快迟到了(你懂的),但我想知道你的电话号码,告诉我好吗?”
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