你对于是否自私的态度直接影响着你有无朋友。友情需要付出,即便有时你不怎么愿意。若你只是随心所欲地行事,关于你的任性,朋友们可能不会长时间忍受下去。
4. You Don’t Care About Your Friends
你不关心朋友
If you don’t care what’s happening in your friends’ lives, your friends might not keep you around. It’s important to show interest in how your friends are doing. People will likely grow insulted if you don’t care to ask about them or you don’t care about their feelings.
如果你都不关心朋友的近况,那他们可能就会与你渐行渐远。向友人展现出你对他们热衷的关注不可或缺。若你不询问他们的情况,或不在乎他们的感受,对方极有可能会感到屈辱。
5. You Keep Score
计较友情的公平
Keeping score has no place in true friendship. If you try to keep score about whose turn it is to choose where you’re going to dinner or whose turn it is to call who, you will likely turn your friends away. Be willing to give to the relationship, rather than focus on trying to keep everything fair.
真挚的友谊容不下所谓的公平。如果你老是纠结下回轮到谁来决定聚餐点,或老是犹豫下回该给谁打电话,那你可能就会失去你的朋友。友谊是自然而然的关系,而非斤斤计较每件事情的公平性。
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