当爱成往事：分手时10句最烂的台词_BEC初级作文

当爱成往事：分手时10句最烂的台词

没有一个真正喜欢别人并且发展着一段恋情的人，会因为这周有太多会议而失去对ta的兴趣。“我太忙了”就是用这种恼人且自尊自大的方式来表达事情没出问题，感觉没有变化——如果你空闲时间都不愿意和某人相处，没问题，知道也无妨。这毕竟跟人有关，而非某个规定制度。所以，每个人都会觉得自己现在很忙啊。

7. “I’m just bad at this stuff.”

“我真的不擅长处理感情问题。”

This is one of many self-pitying breakup cliches that sound like admissions of personal failure, but aren’t — a close cousin of “I’m so fucked up right now,” “I’m just bad at this stuff” romanticizes flaws like inability to communicate, manage one’s time, and treat other people with respect.

分手的时候这算是最常听见的陈词滥调之一，好像是对自己人生失败的一种总结，实际不是——这句话的姊妹篇就是“我现在真的心力交瘁”，“我不擅长处理感情问题” 把那些不善交际、无法合理安排时间、不懂尊重别人等等缺点给美化了。

It’s one thing to realize you’ve got some things you want to work on, alone, but it’s another to use that recognition as a free pass to flail around helplessly. Being “bad at stuff” isn’t just about the person who says it — it also affects the person who has to deal with it.