“我打电话给父亲问能不能下班后去看他,我向他保证花不了多长时间,最终他同意了。我一脚跨进门槛说:‘老爸,我来就是为了特地告诉你一声,我爱你。
“听了这话,老爸似乎前后判若两人。只见他脸变得柔和起来,连皱纹似乎也消失了,他泣不成声,伸出手拥抱我说:‘儿子,我也爱你,但这话以前我从来没能说出口。
“那次上门之后过了两天,我的父亲突发心肌梗塞,结果被送往医院,昏迷不醒。我不知道他是否能挺过去。所以我想告诉大家:如果你知道有些事情需要做的话,千万不要等。要是我等到以后再对父亲说‘我爱你’那句话会怎么样呢———也许我永远没有机会了!
In a class I teach for adults, I recently did the “unpardonable. I gave the class homework! The assignment was to “go to someone you love within the next week and tell them you love them.It has to be someone you have never said those words to before or at least haven't shared those words with for a long time. Now that doesn't sound like a very tough assignment, until you stop to realize that most of the men were over 35 and were raised in the generation of men that were taught that expressing emotions is not “macho.Showing feelings or crying (heaven forbid!) was just not done.So this was a very threatening assignment for some.
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