“只要一分钟。”你的重点不是帮助我。
"Just do XYZ." You think I'm having a hard time figuring this out.
“只要做X,Y,Z。”你认为我弄不明白。
"I'm just an intern." You think your power or influence is limited, in which case it certainly is.
“我只不过是个实习生。”你认为你的能力或者影响力有局限,事实也正是如此。
Blogger, speaker, and consultant Matt Monge takes special issue with the latter example. "You're not just your position. You're an integral part of your organization," he writes. "You're an individual with goals, dreams, abilities, and ideas. You can be a motivated, empowered, positive, valuable member of the team if you just decide to put forth the effort and work it takes to be those things."
博主、发言人、顾问马特•蒙日用后面这个例子做出解释。“你不仅仅只是在你的职位上。你是公司整体的一份子。”他写道,“你是个有目标、有梦想、有能力、有想法的人。如果你决定付出努力和劳动,你可以变成团队中积极、有权利、正面、有价值的一员。”
Always and never
总是&从不
These are classic weapons wielded in relationships that show up in the form of "You always do XYZ" or "You never do ABC." Really? Every single time? Think hard about it--do the behaviors that bother you the most truly happen without fail?
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