恋爱瓶颈期就好比表面的恋爱关系。也许你们会花很多时间泡在一起,也见过对方的朋友和家人,大家也都把你们看成“一对”。
But you're not having a real relationship -- at least not one that is characterized by love and harmony.
但是你没有实质上的恋爱关系-至少不是充满爱和美好的关系。
1. You keep having the same issues
同样的争吵犯了又犯
When you find yourself having the same old argument with your partner for the umpteenth time, that's a pretty good sign you're likely in an entanglement. If you had the same problem in your previous relationships, or keep picking partners with similar issues, that's a tip-off, too.
如果你和另一半总是为类似的事情吵架,明显说明你们到了恋爱瓶颈期。如果你在上一段关系中有同样的问题,或者你挑选的伴侣总是有这样的问题,这也是一个警告。
Patterns that repeat -- especially from relationship to relationship -- indicate that you have unresolved feelings from the past, creating a destructive dynamic that keeps you from enjoying harmony.
如果每次争吵的模式都一样,尤其是从一段恋情到另一段恋情,那就表明你并没有从前一段恋情的伤害中走出来,无法享受爱的美好。
2. You don't feel safe or understood
你没有安全感,感觉自己不被理解
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