生活大爆炸：让2人数小时爱上彼此的36问_BEC初级作文

生活大爆炸：让2人数小时爱上彼此的36问

这些问题的第一部分问的很有礼貌：你想成名吗？你完美的一天是怎么样的？或者你最后一次独自唱歌是什么时候？

But they rapidly become more personal.

但是问题很快变得更加私密。

Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? And how do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

你有没有想过你会怎么死呢？你觉得你和母亲之间的关系怎么样？

The idea is to foster the atmosphere of mutual vulnerability and intimacy that a romantic relationship thrives on. Albeit by revealing to each other your deepest, darkest thoughts - the sort it usually takes a few months to admit (if ever).

这想法是通过营造相互脆弱感和亲密感，以此让恋爱关系不断发展。即使是通过互相透露出你最深最黑暗的想法，而通常需要花几个月双方才会承认（或永远都不承认）有这样的想法。

The 36 questions were published in a study by psychologist Arthur Aron called The Experimental Generation of Interpersonal Closeness.

这36个问题由心理学家亚瑟·艾伦发布在一项名为《人际间亲密度的实验一代》的研究中。

He tested the theory that it's possible to make two people fall in love by getting them to share intimate thoughts and memories. To prove this, he persuaded 52 sets of male and female strangers and 19 sets of female strangers to try it. Two of the participants entered a lab via separate doors, before sitting opposite one another and answering his series of ever-more personal and probing questions.