孩子在潜移默化中向大人学习的三件事_BEC初级作文

孩子在潜移默化中向大人学习的三件事

孩子们学习家长如何处理压力、焦虑和沮丧的情绪。当你在焦虑时大吵大闹，孩子们也会看到，即使叫喊和尖叫并不是针对他们的。父母的过激情绪也会让孩子学会有过激的情绪。当然，如果你控制自己的情绪，孩子们也会学习这一点的。记住，有一双小眼睛总是注视着你。这一点非常重要。表达愤怒、挫折和焦虑是可以的。但是，用更有建设性的方式、帮助您的孩子理解您的面对问题时的情绪是更有效的方法。

Children learn from watching their parents interact with one another. How do you and your spouse or significant other interact with one another? Who makes the decisions? Do disagreements always end in raised voices and tears? Is respect demonstrated on a daily basis? Do your children see you and your spouse being affectionate with one another? These questions are important in helping your child shape their own ideas about what relationships and marriage should be like. Model for your child the type of relationship or marriage that you would like for them to be involved in one day. Don’t feel like children should never see their parents disagree, or that you can’t express displeasure with your significant other. However, do remember that your children are watching and your relationship may be the standard to which they compare their own future relationships. Are you and your spouse setting the example you want them to learn from?