尝试着想想你所拥有的东西,肯定也是数之不尽的。那么请意识到你的大脑有时可能是你最大的敌人。记住即使你现在能拿到你想要的东西,你的大脑也会很快找到新欢。这就是一个恶性循坏,只有通过经常地表达感恩,对你所拥有的东西和实现的事情满怀感恩之情,你才能打破这个循环。
4. Try it someone else's way
4. 接受新观点
Your point of view should not be a law. Do not hold to it and be quick to let it go whenever it gets shaken by a better logic or opinion. When you find yourself in an argument, do not make a battle out of it. Remember that argument should be a synonym to discussion. If you find yourself on a losing side, be strong enough to accept a flaw in your opinion and thank a person for enriching your perspective. At all costs, keep your mind open. Life is a constant growth and motion, and whoever clings to his fixed ways, is eventually left alone behind.
你的观点并非真理。当一种更好的思想颠覆你的观点的时候,不要固执己见,让那些不快快速逝去。当你发现自己身陷争论之中时,不要将其变成战争。记住争辩是讨论的同义词。如果你意识到自己站在失败的一方,勇敢地接受你观点中的漏洞,并去感谢那些让你的思想更丰满的人。无论如何,保持开放的心态。人生是一个不断成长不断变化地过程,那些墨守成规的人最终会与社会脱节。
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