花点时间来反思自己所感恩的事情不仅是件好事情,还能够让你的心情变好,因为这能够减少23%的压力荷尔蒙。来自加州大学的学者Davis进行了一项研究,发现每天能够培养感恩态度的人心情会更好,精力更充沛,身体更强壮。这与低水平的皮质醇所发挥的作用是相当的。
14.You Disconnect
14. 适当与外界断联。
Taking regular time off the grid is a sign of a high EQ because it helps you to keep your stress under control and to live in the moment. When you make yourself available to your work 24/7, you expose yourself to a constant barrage of stressors. Forcing yourself offline and even—gulp!—turning off your phone gives your body and mind a break. Studies have shown that something as simple as an e-mail break can lower stress levels. Technology enables constant communication and the expectation that you should be available 24/7. It is extremely difficult to enjoy a stress-free moment outside of work when an e-mail that will change your train of thought and get you thinking about work can drop onto your phone at any moment.
找时间隔绝人群是高情商的表现,因为这能够帮助你控制压力并感受生活。当你每周每天都随时待命,你就让自己处于一个不断受到压力影响的环境。迫使自己断绝联系,甚至——啪!关上手机,给自己的身心一个休息的机会。研究发现一件简单的小事情,比如发一封邮件的时间都可以帮助你减轻压力。科技让人们之间的联系和期待维持随时待命的状态。这样就很难让人享受到工作以外的无压力的时间,因为一封邮件就能控制你的思考,也让你随时都离不开手机。
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