一招就脱单爱了就要大胆说_BEC初级作文

一招就脱单爱了就要大胆说

Instead, take the chance. Find the nerve and confidence and let your partner know what you need. It is not selfish or needy or insecure to define a need for validation. If any aspect of a relationship is lacking you need to tell your partner. You need to maintain the original promise of the only obligation between the two of you being honesty. If you needed more physical affection from your partner you would ask for it. So why would you deny yourself and your partner that same respect when it comes to something as easy as validation.

反而一定要抓住这个机会。鼓起勇气充满信心，让对方了解你需要什么。在这段恋爱关系需要反复确认自己的感受，这不是一种自私、不是一种窘迫、也不是没有安全感。当然这个说法恰好代表了本文的关键词。如果你们的恋爱关系有任何缺失，你要告诉对方。你需要保持你们之间最初承诺的做到彼此诚实坦诚相待这唯一的一项义务约定。如果你需要从对方身上得到更多的爱，就大胆地去要求。所以，你为什么要否认自己需要求证确认的这种感受呢？对方也想从你身上轻松地求证确认自己的感受。

Take the chance. The reality is that either way, you win; even if you do end up breaking up in the end. At least then you would know early enough on that any time and feelings invested are not going to be as earth shattering as looking back two years later and still not having what you need in a relationship.