The power of words and their silent cousins: "What did you say?" "Nothing." Think of the consequences had that "nothing" actually been, "I was wrong. I'm sorry. I apologize and want to make it up to you." Instead, a relationship was probably hurt forever, or even eventually terminated. "Ouch, that hurts," if left unsaid, can become one of many familiar wedges in a marriage, or any relationship. Not expressed, it can fester inside, becoming worse and much larger over time than it originally was. It also will accumulate other unsaid "ouches," and grow to become a very powerful "I hate your guts." It can eat at one's insides if not voiced. Actually, its release will help the relationship; its incarceration will destroy.
Don't withhold. Let the hostages go. Release the words while they still hold their meaning. Release them before they change in silence. The loneliest place in the world, more desolate and forbidding than the blackest cell of any prison, is a silent marriage/partnership. All the city lights from Manhattan to Bangkok could probably be powered by the turbulent energy of the silent, but unrelenting, dialogues churning in the minds of an unhappy couple. And it would be possible, as well, to freeze solid the oceans of the world by the dynamics between the two.
Allow your thoughts to be heard. You are the most powerful person on earth. You alone possess the ability to change your world, make friends, and influence people. You have the key. Use your words for good. They can help you. Don't withhold them, for in their muted state they can turn on you. Life is a fine balance of releasing the right words in the right order at the right time, and deciding which words are truly better left unsaid.
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