双11特辑为什么我这么优秀还是没人爱_BEC初级作文

双11特辑为什么我这么优秀还是没人爱

获得305好评的答案@Claire J. Vannette

You are misunderstanding your lack of dating success. You seem to attribute it to your kindness. That's just silly. Kindness is an attractive quality. However, it's not the only attractive quality, and it may not be the most attractive quality. For women who are mature and who respect themselves, kindness is the bare minimum. You might as well say "I have a pulse. Why can't I find a girlfriend?"

你误解了你约会失败的原因。你把它归咎于你的“好”，这很蠢。“好”是一种有吸引力的特质，但是，那并不是唯一能吸引人的特质，而且也不是最吸引人的特质。对于那些成熟且自重的女人来说，“好”是最不吸引人的。你还不如问“我是个活人，为什么我找不到女朋友？”

获得62好评的答案@Ipalibo Da-Wariboko

One of the things about most "nice guys" is that they use their "niceness" as an excuse. As in: because I am nice, a girl should want to date me. Wrong! Niceness is in large supply; there is nothing special about it.

那些所谓的“好男人”有个特点就是把自己的“好”作为借口。就像在说：因为我很好，是个女孩都想跟我约会。大错特错！这种“好男人”多得是，有什么好稀奇的。

获得4好评的答案

I am afraid that nice is sometimes used as a euphemism for lacking any interesting qualities; you can be called nice if you never do anything that would cause you to stick your neck out or have a strong opinion. Such a person would not be interesting to anyone. Ultimately, you need to have something that would attract another person.