如果你确定这欺凌不带人身攻击,那么试着直面它吧。记得要保持专业。保持冷静,并且不要黑乎、威胁对方,再怎么说也不能像ta一样矫情吧。严肃告诉对方,ta的行为自己不会再忍耐下去,并且确保自己的声音和深色十分自信,同时可以起身以保持声音的坚定。不要做任何让对方觉得你很弱的事情,比如说在讲到泪点时也要忍住不哭。
Some people will only choose to pick on someone who appears weaker than they are. By showing you are strong, you may put an end to his behavior. Be aware that it may not. Some bullies crave a confrontation, and this might only encourage him to come back for more.
有些人就是爱找软柿子捏,所以显示出你的强大,可能就会让他们有所收敛。不过也要做好他们不吃这套的准备,因为有些人的气焰可能会由此助长。
3.Avoid involving other people
3.别把他人拉下水
Your coworkers will see what is going on and will form opinions. Some may offer to help, but others won't acknowledge the problem. It may not be because they don't see it, but they may be making a choice not to get involved. That may be because they don't want to choose sides or make themselves the bully's focus.
你的其他同事都看在眼里,每个人的看法也有所不同。有些人会伸手相助,而有些人视而不见。无动于衷代表的可能不是不当回事儿,而是他们不想受到牵连,被迫选边站或是也成为被攻击的对象。
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