大多数人用其一生纠结于对事物的反应上。我们的反应通常受到这些因素支配:要么是我们学得的如何给出反应,要么是对过往同类事件所做出的反应。不过仅仅作出反应无法让我们具有创造性和针对性的思考。
Next time you find yourself in a situation that presents a challenge to your decision to be more positive, hold your reaction and count to 5. This brief break will give you the opportunity to decide how you want to respond, instead of simply reacting.
下次当你发现自己正拘泥是否该往积极方面思考的情况时,请先别急着做反应,而应先数5秒钟。这个短暂的停顿能让你决定你所希望的反应方式,而不仅仅是草率反应。
4.Cut Back on the Nightly News
4.减少观看夜间资讯的次数
Whichever nightly news program you prefer, you probably are aware of how much negative news is reported. Expose yourself to an abundance of negativity and, like it or not, you will begin to be more negative.
无论你喜欢何种夜间资讯节目,但你应该都能意识到负面资讯的影响。如果你常常观看大量的负面资讯,不管你喜不喜欢,你都会变得越来越消极。
Negativity is like a drug. The more you expose yourself to negativity and negative people, the more you adopt negativity into your life.
负面影响就像毒药。你接触的负面影响和消极的人越多,你就会吸收越多负面能量。
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